We share...
.
As we tarry there...
None other...
Has ever known.
When last we spoke, my mother in law (Mom) had just entered Hospice...
And she had requested that we celebrate the engagement of her grandson and the introduction of his bride-to-be with a circle of family at a party in Mom's home...
I also shared the fact that Mom had gone to bed thinking about a time when she and I sat with my grandmother on a garden bench, and Granny, who couldn't remember what someone had asked her five minutes earlier due to a stroke that impaired her short term memory, sang hymn after hymn, including "In The Garden" as requested by Mom. After thinking about Granny singing, Mom fell asleep and had a dream in which she herself was sitting on a garden bench...
When suddenly she looked up, and coming down the garden path toward her was The Lord...
He was walking toward a garden gate, and as He opened it, she knew she would be the next one through the gate...
But someone woke her up instead.
That same day, her pulse crashed three times, once upon awakening, but all three times she revived.
Over the course of weeks, Mom remained patiently seated on the garden bench...
Day after day, she awaited her turn,..
Always assured that The Lord would come for her...
Until, at last, He finally did,...
He opened the gate, took her by the hand, and together they went home to stroll in His beautiful garden above...
Mom never doubted His love for her. Like the lighthouse across the harbor from us, His light shown through the night [click on the pictures to see the light in the photos below]..
And into the glorious new morning, leading her safely to shore...
Into a glorious new day!
And now to Mom:
While we will miss your sweet, sparkly spirit...
And while your place at the family table...
Or any table for that matter, could never be filled by anyone else...
We celebrate with you...
Your sweet reunion with Dad...
And your meeting, face to face, with the Savior! What joy!
And oh, how I would love to see your reaction to the banquet feast above. Something tells me you're on the arrangements committee with all of those shiny objects with which to play!
No one loved a party as much as you, and how can any of us ever begin to thank you for flying on the spur of the moment to come celebrate with us over the years???
Birthdays...
Holidays...
Anydays and Everydays...
From your love of summer...
To your lifelong devotion to sunbathing and the beach...
To the fact that no one could ever come close to being the prolific letter writer you were or could be more polite than you in crafting the perfect thank-you note including your propensity for writing thank-you notes for thank-you notes!
And Mom, no one could ever, EVER dye more wonderful Easter eggs than you. I still cannot believe that you made them for us EVERY SINGLE YEAR though your chicks all qualify for AARP and beyond! ;-)
Yep, you outdid the Easter Bunny himself!
And part of the joy of any Easter is knowing that you and Dad will be celebrating with each other and so many other loved ones in Heaven...
If they have a tap dance contest, my money is on you! Move over, Ann Miller!!!
And Mom, please remember...
To hug Mama for me...
When the two of you have tea, as I know you will!
I just pray I can follow your lead when my time comes and wait as patiently and even more important -- as graciously -- as you did. Only, I think I will choose a bench in an indoor, air conditioned "garden", complete with tons of gardening books. Pretty nice waiting room, no? Something tells me, you would approve! ;-)
In loving memory of Mom, the best Mother in Law ever! Pansies are for remembrance, and I will always remember and be grateful for YOU! xoxoxo
"...For whither thou goest, I will go; and whither thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God..." -- Ruth to Naomi, her mother in law. The Book of Ruth 1:16
Loving you...
Sheila (Mrs. Magpie)
"In The Garden" was written by C. Austin Miles, and "Cyber-Hymnal" has this to say about the author and the hymn's creation:
I read...the story of the greatest morn in history: "The first day of the week cometh Mary Magadelene early, while it was yet very dark, unto the sepulcher." Instantly, completely, there unfolded in my mind the scenes of the garden of Joseph... Out of the mists of the garden comes a form, halting, hesitating, tearful, seeking, turning from side to side in bewildering amazement. Falteringly, bearing grief in every accent, with tear-dimmed eyes, she whispers, "If thou hast borne him hence"... "He speaks, and the sound of His voice is so sweet the birds hush their singing." Jesus said to her, "Mary!" Just one word from His lips, and forgotten the heartaches, the long dreary hours... all the past blotted out in the presence of the Living Present and the Eternal Future.
"In The Garden" was part of the music used in the Academy Award-winning movie, "Places in The Heart". As in the funeral scenes in the movie, the hymn is often performed at funerals throughout the South, many times as a solo. By request, I sang this for Mom at home.






















































































57 comments:
It is nothing short of the hand of Providence that I sat down at my computer (which I'm not doing that much these days) and opened my blog dashboard (again, not doing that much these days) and saw that you had just posted. I came here to read from my old blog friend, and this was the post you had written.
I know I have said it before and in emails, but your MIL's story blesses me. She now stands with that great cloud of witnesses from Faith's Hall of Fame. The thought is just awesome.
I pray you, your husband, and family are all feeling that peace that passes understanding. I can tell just from reading this that you are. May God continue to bless you with His Presence.
I've missed you also, glad you have returned and so sorry about your hand. Oh my goodness I will be singing this song today and LOVING it. It is one of my favorites and you have used the most beautiful photos to accompany the song. Sounds like your MIL had a personal sweet relationship with our Father. It's brings so much peace to KNOW where she is today!!!!When my Daddy left this earth--Jesus was there and Daddy said "you are so beautiful" and went to be with HIM. She was a very pretty lady--wonderful post.
Ann
A lovely tribute to a lovely lady. I enjoyed the photos (especially the white tea setting and the squirrels) So glad to see you back!!!!
Dear Sheila, my heart skipped a beat when I saw your name at the top of my blog list, and, as I read your beautiful heartfelt tribute to your beloved mother-in-law, the strains of In the Garden, were running through my mind. This beautiful and eloquent testament of your love and faith is surely echoing throughout Heaven today ... and I know your precious mother-in-law is smiling down on you and Fred.
I could feel this leading us to the garden gate. So sad but so beautiful and uplifting at the same time. That Hymn is one of my favorites and to see the love you have for you Mom is wonderful. Sending you hugs!
Just beautiful Sheila! Such wonderful memories and an amazing tribute! Gotta wipe the tears from my eyes...
Please take care and give yourself time to heal from the accident! Nice to see you again:@)
In the Garden is one of my favorites Shelia! Such a lovely tribute to your MIL. Blessing to you and your family!
Hugs,
Sherry
Sheila, I’m so sorry to hear about your fall … bless your heart, you’ve had more than your fair share of hardships lately. I can’t think of a better exercise than blogging to help your hand heal :) … and your readers will reap the rewards, too. Hope to see “The Quintessential Magpie” at the top of my bloglist often! You have been missed, my friend.
Take care …
Oh, Dearest Sheila! My heart is breaking with you and your family on Mom's departure from this earth. But I'm rejoicing in the fact that she is with our Savior and that we have the promise as Christians, we'll be with our loved ones again one day. What a very special lady she was and a beautiful tribute to her. You are all in my prayers. It's so hard when our loved ones age and leave this earth. My own little Mother is in God's waiting room at this time. I love you and thank you always for your heart connection and sweetness. I have missed you so much. I'm so sorry to hear you've fallen and are broken up. Take care of yourself.
Sending much love,
Shelia ;)
I am so sorry for your loss, Sheila. You wrote a very touching and beautiful tribute to your MIL which surely has her smiling down from heaven. Your pictures are lovely as well.
I'm so sorry about your arm, I hope that it is healing well. I've missed hearing from you and I know you have many tasks at hand, but please stay in touch.
Much love to you and Fred.
XO,
Janie
Shelia - What a wonderful tribute to a great person. That great song is such a calm and serene assurance to us all.
Judy
Oh Sheila, you just made me cry. This is beautiful. I can imagine how much you loved each other. This post is so helpful in making left loved ones feel better when someone they love passes away. I hope your hand heals fast and so nice to see you again...Christine
Oh Sheila, you just made me cry. This is beautiful. I can imagine how much you loved each other. This post is so helpful in making left loved ones feel better when someone they love passes away. I hope your hand heals fast and so nice to see you again. So sorry about you MIL but I know she is happy in heaven with her late hubby..Christine
Hello Dear Friend, what a joy to see you had posted today! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! A beautiful tribute of your sweet MIL you have posted, A beautiful testimony of her love,faith, trust, and patience for her Lord! She would be so pleased!
I have so missed you!!!
Love,
Sue
What a wonderful tribute to your precious mother-in-law, and thank you for allowing us to journey through such a joyful garden with you!
Sheila, that is one of my favorite hymns. I sang the words as I enjoyed the photos you chose to illustrate your deep feelings. Love & hugs!!
Wow, what an amazing tribute to your mom. I have tears. My heart hurts for your loss but rejoices with you that she is with her Lord.
I got your comment just now asking me to email you but I can't find your email address. I'm sorry!
My email is: missylovsjesus at yahoo.com
How beautifully written, sweet friend! Your MIL is smiling down from Heaven upon you. Peace be with you and your family!
Sheila, I've missed you. I've sent emails but not sure you received them because I've not heard back from you. Send me an email tonight. I have something I want to discuss with you.
Beautiful tribute to your mom.
Love ~ Sarah
What a touching and beautiful tribute to your mother-in-law. I'm sure she is smiling down and so pleased.
Big hugs,
Sam
Sheila...this is the first time I have opened my blog in over a month. And what do I find, but the most loving tribute to a wonderful lady. Thank you for sharing these lyrics, these photos...and most importantly, your wonderful Mom. I know you and your family are missing her... Through your words, we all witnessed her lust for life, her love of family...and her devotion to our Lord. Praying for you and your family...
xoxo Jane
ps This is my mom's favorite hymn, too. She sang it all the time...walking in her garden, riding her lawn mower...Thank you for reminding me of it. I'll have to sing it to her this week.
What a sweet tribute to your mother-in-law Shelia! Love that song...reminds us so much of our grandmother ~ one of her favorites...we can still hear her beautiful soprano voice singing "In the Garden" as well as many other songs she cherished. She had Alzheimer's, but wouldn't you know...she might forget you, but didn't forget her savior and knew all of the songs by heart :)
By the way...love the bible verse...I chose that for one of my readings for my wedding!
Keeping you all in your prayers dear friend!!
Karla & Karrie
What a loving and beautiful tribute! Thank you so much for sharing her with us. You'll be in my prayers.
Well I just cried all the way though. First of all that is the song we sand at my brother's funeral.
And the tribute to this woman - wow were you so blessed to have someone like this in your life that you loved so much.
She waited her turn for Jesus to come.
Oh Sheila I wonder and hope I will be like that when my time comes.
I wish I was half the woman she was.
She was beautiful.
She will be missed and you have been missed.
I love those photos too.
I suspect, dear Sheila, you inherited your Mom's propensity for fabulous writing skills. :) What a gift! I am sorry for your loss.
Hoping that hand is healing more and more each day. Love you!
Sheila,
I am sorry to learn of your loss, but the knowledge of the rejoicing and reunions is wonderful. I have always loved that grand old hymn.
Thank you for this beautiful tribute.
I love you.
Mr. Magpie
Very touching and wonderfully presented.
Big hugs ~ Eddie x
I am crying.
The garden gate is a splendid image to deal with the passing from this life to the next with HIM, the creator of all that is AWESOME and INCOMPREHENSIBLE, yet attainable when we simply love one another.
I wish you peace as you look out into the autumn sky and know that all that has a beginning and an end ENDS up with HIM. I believe that.
Thank you dearest Sheila for coming to my post. JESUS LIVES!!!!!! Anita
I just wanted to say this is a beautiful tribute to your mom in every way. She is walking with our Lord in spirit and one day we all will be seeing what she is seeing. We will have a new body that will never get sick or old. To spend eternity with Jesus, what could be more awesome... That day could come today and I will leap for joy. GOD bless you and lift your spirits higher than one dares to feel as only the Lord can lift them.
I just "happened by," not sure how I got here, but I loved this post. How beautiful if it. I lost my mom 8 months ago and this could have been written about her! I'm sorry for your loss.
Dear Friend,
I'm stopping by again as I can't find your email address! I want to thank you for stopping by. And as you know, I'm trying to "Re~follow" those that I may have fallen off with as a result of some crazy Google hitch or whatever. And...I can't find your Followers button. Not my day.
Hope you're feeling better today. Rest up and heal!!
XO,
Janie
Dear Sheila,Your post is so beautiful it made me cry. Seriously, I love this hymn so much. Your photos tell the story so well. The photos were lovely and it is obvious that there was beauty 'inside and out' of your dear mother-in-law. How fortunate you are to have the most precious memories.
I pray that you are healing and mending well since your fall. We are not supposed to fall at our age. I am older than you and I can tell you I never take my eyes off the places where my feet are taking me. HA! I mean it.
Thank you for your sweet comments. We were out of town for 4 days last weekend. Gator football games bring us to Florida in the Fall. Two of our grands are now attending college there. We are so proud of them.
I am sending you blessings and big hugs right now.
Love, Jeanne
A lovely, touching tribute, accompanied by gorgeous photos. Last week I celebrated my first birthday without my mother. It was a tough one. Blessings to the family in this time of sorrow.
I have missed you my friend. What a lovely tribute to your sweet and precious mother-in-law. Earths loss is Heavens gain. I too am sorry for your loss. Love and hugs, Cindy
She surely is smiling at you with love and warmth. All of you are her legacy. Good parents teach us until they go, and she taught you with grace.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family, Sheila, on the loss of your mother-in-law! I believe she is truly with the Lord and enjoying paradise.
I am also sorry to hear you have other family members that are ill right now, and that you were in an accident. "When it rains it pours," and it sounds like it has been a rough time for you all right now. I pray all things will improve soon! Please keep in touch, dear one {{{HUGS}}}
I didn't know you were back blogging until this morning..I read on a blog somewhere that you had broken your hand...thought I'd swing by and say I'm sorry you are hurt. Hoping it gets better and better every day.
Blessings and comfort to all of you on the loss of your MIL.
xo bj
Beautiful tribute, S! May she rest in peace. She sounded like a wonderful woman!
amen!! what a beautiful post!
m ^..^
Oh Sheila,
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady. Your MIL was a super one, and she was fortunate to have YOU in her life!
Oh my eyes filled with tears at the tremendous beauty you shared. What a blessing your dear mother in law was. Thinking of you dear one.
Hi sweet Sheila! Thank you so much for popping in to see me. I hope you had a good weekend and wish you a wonderful week.
Be a sweetie,
Shelia ;)
Hi Sheila, thank you for your sweet comment. I am so glad you can type, even if with only one hand. I pray you are improving each day.
The cute thing about this story today is I can just hear my John saying the same thing. One night when he was small he said the prayer at dinner and this is what he said to my shock and dismay. "Thank you for the food and meat, Good God let's eat." I can laugh about it now and he never did tell us where he heard that. He was about 7 years old. Sigh! Kids.
Love, Jeanne
What a wonderful tribute to your mom (MIL?) You should print it all out for your husband and family to keep and treasure. The photograpy is beautiful and the song -- we all love that song, so lovely!!
So glad you are back!
Katherine
What a blessing she is and forever will be. This is possibly the most beautiful tribute I have ever read.
In The Garden is one of my favorite songs of all time. As I read, I could sit in my father's church and listen to Mrs. Camp play the piano and Mr. Camp lead the congregation in that lovely melody. When I got older, it was one of my favorite selections to offer up for the church and my Lord.
Sheila, you are such a beautiful child of God and I appreciate your thoughtful insight that reminds one that our Lord is waiting to take us home , in his time.
Thank you for sharing "Mom" with us, I can tell she was a blessing to all of you and I am sure she is blessed by your sweet tribute.
Have a blessed week, Ginger
Hi Sheila,
Such a beautiful, heartfelt tribute to your Mom.
I feel like I know her now myself.
I have been gone visiting my other grand-baby in Phoenix.
Much to catch up on.
I am so happy to hear from you.
It makes my heart sing when I hear from my old blogging buddies.
Blogging has changed so much and my bestest friends are still the first ones I made. My blogging is rather sporadic now, it's more to keep up with some friendships.
Best wishes my dear and thanks again for sharing this beautiful tribute.
Cindy
This post made me sad and happy and nostalgic...the gift of good writing is that it makes us feel something and I felt many things. I am sorry for your loss and yet so happy you were blessed with such a wonderful woman in your lives. She sounds charming!
Mrs. Magpie -
I'm very sorry for your loss but this is so beautiful. Your Mom would be proud.
Adrienne
Dear Shelia,
I had no idea what was going on in your life & I'm so very sorry for your loss of your Mother. I miss mine every single day & she has been gone almost 20 years now.
Your post is so tender & revealing & lets us see your Mother through your eyes. She must have been a wonderful woman! We trust that she is resting in HIS arms now & that you will see her & your Dad again someday.
I'm also sorry to read about your hand. Yikes! You've had a rough go of things lately.
Take it easy & rest up & never feel obligated to comment...just enjoy reading & know that we think of you often.
Hugs,
Rett
I was moved to tears as I read your beautiful tribute, Sheila. I am so sorry for your loss and can tell by what you have written that she was a very special, beautiful woman. Your wonderful memories will keep her close to you.
What a beautiful post to a beautiful woman. Thanks for sharing her with us!
Dear Sheila, this is such a beautiful tribute to your mother-in-law. How blessed you were to have her in your life, and vice-versa. Sending you big hugs and peaceful thoughts.
Hello, Sheila, my dear and sweet friend,
I am crying as I read this beautiful tribute to your dear mother-in-law. I said "read" but I did sing the words as I read. You were fortunate to have such a dear friend, but I am sure she is very thankful for you, too. Thinking about you and your hubby today. Wishing you peace and comfort. Sending all my love to you~ Vicki p.s. I hope your hand is getting well.
Love this hymn, and I know I would have loved your dear Mom too! What a gift you were to each other!
What a beautiful post. A wonderful tribute. Very touching. Thank you for sharing.
Sheila,
That is a most beautiful and touching tribute! What an elegant lady she was.
HUGS!
What an absolutely beautiful and touching and smiling tribute to your mom (in law)!! Oh, Sheila... =) xxooxxoo
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